Rebirth into a life of intention, depth and radiant turn-on.

Welcome to your awakening, I’m Jolene.

Hi there. I'm Jolene, the heart and soul behind Iron Butterfly Experience, where my life's work is to guide you through an awakening to a life tuned in and turned on.

My mantra – Bold, Tenacious, Soft, Infectious – is more than just words; it reflects my own path and the beacon for our journey together.

It wasn’t long ago, I found myself ending my marriage, learning how to financially support myself and take care of a home, all the while trying to figure out who I am and what I’m here for. These are questions I’ve asked myself from a very young age. Before I had a chance to really settle in to that inquiry, life through me a curve ball. I found myself in relationship with a man in an extremely visceral way. It was the kind of connection I had never experienced before. It was powerful and so painful. I began to ignore my intuition, accept mediocrity and lost myself once again.

My approach isn't just about personal transformation; it's about creating waves of positive change that ripple through relationships, communities and the world.

It was after the ending of this relationship and through the rupture I experienced, that I learned the value of a meditation practice and began to rebirth, and continue to do so, who I am today. I immersed myself in learning and any healing modalities that resonated with me. I went to some places, let me tell you, that had me naked in front of many, crying in front of many, experiencing what true sisterhood meant and experiencing that part of myself that left me feeling over joyed at the gift of being alive.

My passion and mission is to help women reconnect with their divine intuition. To have such shameless love for themselves, obstacles will simply melt away. For women to soften and experience such depths of intimacy with themselves and others, they will vibrate higher every day, become magnetic and lead a life aligned with their purpose. And when they can’t seem to find it, they have a community of sister goddesses who can hold and witness them in their messiness. I am your right of passage, your permission slip, to become that insatiable tuned in and turned on, wise goddess you are meant to be!

Awaken to the beauty of living a life in the deliberate pursuit of pleasure and desire, while softening into your truest expression.

Core Values

I’m all in on…

Transparency & Authenticity


Safe & Sacred Space


Radiating Love to All


Providing Value through Empowerment


Nurturing Connection through Spirit

Community, Ceremony & Awareness

Honouring Darkness


Embracing Shadows with Love


Removing Conditioning & Veils


Leading with Frequency


Celebrating the Juciness of Life

Worldly insights and expert guidance…

Pursuing a new way of being has led me across continents to gather certifications and experiences like none other. My dedication to exploring the depths of the feminine in her glory and natural state and lessoning the divide between the masculine and feminine, has taken me in to trainings such as the Desire on Fire Mastery Program and Regena Thomashauer’s Power, Pleasure and Play Moroccan Retreat.

With a holistic approach cultivated through the teachings and training I received through the Chopra Foundation, juxtaposed with my experiences in other modalities of edgy radiant turn on, I weave ancient wisdom with modern practices, guiding you toward a life of balance, harmony in relationships and radiant well-being.

Illuminate your Transformation

Showing up for yourself and loving yourself…

Provides Authentic Leadership

As a mother, my transformation, iron will and determination for it to be so, has profoundly enriched my family life, allowing me to connect with my children in a powerful way, honouring their individuality, as well as my own and fostering direct communication. When my kids say, "Mom, you're so weird," and then laugh, I know I'm on the right track.

Embrace your shadows, liberate your light.

Working with me is not for the faint of heart. It's a deep dive into the essence of who you are, confronting the shadows and emerging not just changed but truly free. I will challenge you and bring you to some confronting places and then I will hold you and bring you back to expansion and radiance. I co-create with my clients and I can’t wait to get started with you!

  • "I have worked with Jolene professionally for almost a decade in various capacities. She has offered unique insight into personal growth and professional development. Her caring personality is unmatched in this field of work and I always look forward to our sessions. Working with her has allowed more ease and flow into my day-to-day business. I am able to tap into more of my feminine side that allows me to connect with clients and by doing this creates deeper impact. I am so grateful for her spirit and her teachings. She has completely enriched my life!"

    -Rachelle P. Sales Representative, Toronto

  • "I have had the pleasure of knowing Jolene professionally for many years. Last year I started attending group sessions with her and have acquired some extremely helpful tools. I started my spiritual journey very young and felt that I had developed a well balanced spiritual practice. I am in my late fifties and didn't expect to be exposed to tools that I've never known or used before!! Embracing the Devine Feminine and all that it entails is so exciting and empowering. Jolene shares with such vulnerability and enthusiasm ,which in turn encourages me to do the same. She creates such a safe, non judgemental, comfortable environment in which to learn and grow. I can't wait to see what's to come!"

    -Julie M. Spa Owner / Operator

  • “We met randomly in a foreign country … Our souls connected at first sight and I knew instantly that a sister goddess has blessed my life. My personal take on Jolene is just how real she is. She lives her life with the honesty and fearlessness it takes to walk her talk and it’s a joy to be in the presence of someone who is beautiful, inside and out.”

    -Leila E. Monoco

Work with me.

  • In my personalized 1:1 coaching sessions, I create a sacred space for you to explore and ignite your deepest desires and untapped potential. It's a heart-to-heart journey where I guide you, my sister goddess, to rediscover your strength, embrace your divine femininity, and step into your power. Together, we'll unlock the secrets to living a life filled with purpose, passion, and pleasure.

  • Join me and a community of like-minded women in my group coaching sessions and workshops. These gatherings are a melting pot of inspiration, shared wisdom, and collective empowerment. We dive deep into practices that awaken our divine feminine, explore our desires, and break through the barriers holding us back. It's a powerful experience of connection, transformation, and sisterhood.

  • Imagine a sanctuary where you can disconnect from the world's noise and reconnect with your inner goddess. My retreats are designed to do just that. In these sacred getaways, we immerse ourselves in nature, deep healing, and powerful rituals that revive our spirits. It's a time for personal reflection, profound transformation, and awakening to the magic that lies within us.

  • Stressed out? Not sleeping well? Mind not as sharp as it used to be? The world needs you at your best right now. Meditation gives the body rest that is five times deeper than sleep. When your body is rested, it kows how to heal itself. It’s a powerful medicine that is proven, to not only move way from the stress of the now, but also from the past. Let’s just say it. It will help you reverse your body age, you won’t get sick as often, you’ll have better sex and generally experience better.

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